Money is one of the most common topics couples argue about, but there may be more to it than meets the eye. Natalie Nelson, Energy Healing Educator & Program Developer for HealersLibrary.com, is here to give the scoop on how to keep money from ruining your relationship. Nelson, who is the daughter of renowned holistic physician Dr. Bradley Nelson, author of the bestselling book The Emotion Code and creator of The Body Code healing system believes some people don’t believe they can have both love and money, while others struggle with self-worth issues that lead to both money and relationship problems. This comes in the form of emotional baggage.
Experts agree that talking about your feelings around money and finances is the key to keeping it from becoming a relationship killer, but how?
Nelson recommends seeking to understand how your conflict resolution style impacts your relationships. The following sample questions you can ask and answer from her “Resonating Relationships” assessment – number each from 1 to 5 (with 1 being what most describes you) to determine your primary conflict resolution style:
What is your typical conflict resolution style?
- Avoiding ___
- Accommodating ___
- Competing ___
- Compromising ___
- Collaborating ___
If you are in a relationship, have your partner also assess his or her style. “Our conflict resolution style impacts all our relationships,” Natalie says. “ Work toward always being a collaborator.”
About Natalie Nelson
Natalie Nelson, 33, has spent more than 15 years studying, experiencing and teaching the powerful healing that is possible through The Emotion Code and The Body Code, created by her father Dr. Bradley Nelson. As a certified Emotion Code/Body Code Trainer, she has taught healing practitioners all over the world in these systems to help people identify and release negative emotions. She developed Resonating Relationships to help people discover and get rid of the emotional baggage that can sabotage love, romance and healthy, lasting relationships. She currently resides in Salt Lake City, UT.
About Dr. Bradley Nelson
Dr. Bradley Nelson is a holistic Chiropractic Physician, a Medical Intuitive, and one of the world’s foremost experts in the emerging fields of Bioenergetic Medicine and Energy Psychology. His bestselling book, “The Emotion Code,” provides step-by-step instructions for working with the body’s healing power. Download a free copy at EmotionCodeGift.com.
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